Do they expect us to stop, turn and swoon!?
Do they expect us to go "hey baby!!!! i feel the same fuckin way! come here and put it in me!"
FUCKIN DREAM ON ASSHOLES!!!!
Not only are they gross and obscene, in ALL cases they are ugly too. yuck. vom.
So, i went out to dinner around 830pm with my friends today and needless to say i was not lookin too cute. yes, i changed my office clothes to a pair of shorts, but my top remained the same: an ivory long sleeved cardigan. sexy, eh?? Anyway so, et and i were outside the restaurant yantering. Out of the blue, this miniature-sweaty-most-probably-illegal mexican kitchen worker passes by AND HEAVILY FEELS MY ASS.
asshole!
This is my very first experience with sexual harassment. I'm not going to count the high school mems where boys would try to sit on the blackboard platform and peek into the ladies' skirts. Or the time where this guy named Owen found a hole thru the classroom where us girls would change into our P.E. uniforms, and peek and drool over our adolescent moonbits in traing bras (he got what he deserved: EXPULSION!). No, those are not counted.
See, there are so many circumstances of subtle harrassments here in NY. Like, there was this one nasty skinny tall guy walking close to me, stopped and said something that im sure is inapropriate but luckily i had my ipod on loud so i couldn't hear him. normally i try to just ignore this shit, but there are guys that are so relentless!! he'd keep looking at me with his nasty fuck me eyes and saying nasty stuff.
Then, there are a LOT of cases where some fat bald guy in a truck slows down and then stops in traffic to call me baby and ask if i wanted to join him!! HE STOPS TRAFFIC! fucking idiot!! so, i would flip him the bird.
There are also some trucks driving around the little greasy man inside would give a hollar, but he'd keep going so i couldnt flip him anything....oh well, you cant win em all.
So let me carry on about the one by the restaurant.
I was such in disbelief, i nervously tell ET to call 911. The man wasn't even running or anything! He actually gave me a long dirty look and stuck his tongue out before he continued walking away. I calmly told the operator my emergency, and where the guy was headed. Not wanting for the cops to lose him, Et and i start following him (we're not stupid, we weren't going to wrestle him down!). He makes a left somewhere, ET and i start running to catch up (man had a 1/4 mile head start). He caught a glimpse of Et and me chasing him, and made another turn, and tha'ts when i called the very sluggish 911 to tell them the updates.
Guess what, police were never to be seen. And et and i waited for them for awhile to see if they'd actually drop in!
These things don't occur only to me. Et had a problem too where some sunog guy leans over her while ishe was somewhere in Manhattan, im talking like 2 inches from her face and makes like a breathing noise! right in her face! she was so terrified she RAN away.
i am so furious.
why, i ask you, did he think that this would be even romotely ok? WHY!?!? it is sickening. all of this shit happened when i was about to eat my favorite dish too....maybe those nasty men smell your good mood or something.
And the worst thing of all is that in ny, this is a regular thing that women have to endure....fucking perverts.
